Homosexuals and heterosexuals for whom marriage might pose a financial hardship will soon be able to have their relationships blessed in the Diocese of Kansas.

"We have people in our parish communities who have not been able to fully enjoy the blessing of their lives," the Bishop of Kansas said in a letter sent to clergy announcing the decision. "I come to my decision in part out of pastoral care for these people, but also because of the example I see in our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Jesus in his Incarnation cared deeply for all people, and had a special care for those who were denied the fullness of life."

In announcing the policy change, Bishop Smalley said that he believes the Diocese of Kansas is the first to extend a rite of blessing to heterosexual as well as homosexual couples. In some cases a surviving spouse may lose pension or social security benefits if he or she remarries.

Under the procedure outlined by Bishop Smalley, a congregation intending to perform the proposed blessing must submit a plan for approval at least 30 days in advance. At least one of the two must be a member in good standing of the congregation and both must be willing to undergo pastoral counselling. The rector and vestry must reach consensus (not unanimous agreement) to move ahead with the ceremony.

"The proposed rite for the blessing of the relationship shall not be considered to be Holy Matrimony and shall be distinct of and in no way resemble The Celebration and Blessing of a Marriage in The Book of Common Prayer or similar rites used in other religious traditions," Bishop Smalley said in outlining the sixth and final stipulation.

Article from; The Living Church